Services

Helping kids feel safer, stronger, and more understood.

Dr. Gilman's training at the world's premiere pediatric hospitals has allowed her to gain expertise in superior cutting edge intervention.

Attachment-informed, skills-forward care for toddlers to teens to manage big feelings, communicate clearly, and strengthen the bond with their caregivers—at home, at school, and between homes.

• Kids with big feelings: anxiety, mood swings, perfectionism, worry spirals
• Tweens/teens navigating change: family transitions, blended families, moves, grief
• School stress: avoidance, test anxiety, organization/executive-function challenges
• Social bumps: friendship issues, group dynamics, boundaries, online/tech stress
• Two-home families: handoffs, loyalty binds, different rules across homes

I help couples reduce reactivity, communicate clearly, and build everyday habits that strengthen the bond—especially during high-stress seasons (new baby, career shifts, blended families, court involvement). I use evidence-based practices to ensure effective interventions. 

• Partners who want fewer blowups and faster repairs
• Expecting or new parents who want to baby-proof their relationship
• Couples navigating co-parenting stress, step-family transitions, or big decisions
• Partners on the brink of a decision who want clarity without pressure
• Collaborative Divorce Coaching
• Premarital Coaching and prenups
• Mediation

My work is grounded in attachment science and real-world parent–child dynamics. I help families stabilize emotions, include children’s needs safely, and build plans that work on hard days—not just good ones.

• Attachment Coaching
• Child Specialist (Collaborative)
• Reunification & Repair
• Transitions & Handoffs
• Parenting Plan Tune-Up
• Co-Regulation & Emotion Skills
• Collaborative Divorce Coaching
• Parent Child Interaction Therapy
• Blended Family Onboarding
• School/Clinical Team Coordination

Professionals seeking peer education, mentorship, and training may join my workshops, training, and webinars focused on empowering legal, mental health, and educational professionals with specialized training and resources to navigate separations and divorces with a focus on promoting cooperative resolutions. 

• Child-Inclusive Practice (Voice of the Child)
• High Conflict vs. Coercive Control
  Screening, pacing, safety adaptations, team alignment.
• Resist–Refuse & Reunification
  Stepwise repair, roles/limits, pitfalls, case roadmaps.
• Trauma-Informed Parenting Coordinatio
• Collaborative Team Skills
  Coach/Child Specialist roles, agendas, decision logs, handoffs.
• Parenting Plan Design That Works
  Schedules, transitions,  special topics, review/repair clauses.
• Listening & Communication for Professionals
• Practice Growth for Collaborative Groups